You will solve it!

George Dantzig, was a math student, with a habit of coming late forclasses. During a class, where George was late, his professor Jerzy Neyman wrote two example of famously unsolved statistics problems on theboard. At the end of the class, George assumed that the two problems were homework assignments.

According to George, the problems "seemed a little harder than usual."

But even though he struggled, he finally figured out how to solve it and handed in the completed solutions. Professor Neyman was suprised to receive George's "homework" as he did not assign homework. He reviewed it and could not believe that his "student" had solved two famous unsolved problems. George later admitted,

"If I had known that the problem were not homework but were in fact
two famous unsolved problems in statistics, I probably would not have thought positively, would have become discouraged and would never have solve them."

Missing the Departed Life

This afternoon when I was back to office after my lunch, I opened my laptop and the desktop wallpaper show my beloved pet, Daniel. He is a dalmation and picked up by my younger brother in 2003 along roadside. Daniel left us on 12th October 2010. That was a Tuesday morning when he left us due to kidney failure. I miss him alot after he departed into the other world.

We buried him in the sidewalk nearby our house. I say hello to him whenever I walk through that place. This afternoon as usual, I talked to Daniel through his picture on my laptop. I express my feeling, thinking, and missing to him. And I was wondering how his life would be now? I closed my eyes and take a rest after this prayerful conversation.

Within a minute, I was guided to switch on my iPod and play songs. I randomly played the song from the albums. The first song was "My Wish" of Rascal Flatt. When I listened to that song, I feel a strong sense of peace and comfort. In my mind eye, I saw Daniel. He was wavering his tail and I can hear his barking. "I can feel his presence, Daniel is here with me." I told myself.

Again, I was guided to Google search the lyric. I was so amazed, because the lyric shown the answer of my prayer. I cried when I read it. I thanks to Daniel. He gaves me so much of strength and faith whenever I was lost and confused.

I wiped off my tears, and taking out a prayer book that I usually use in my reading session. I asked a guided prayer from the Universe. So, I randomly flipped, and this page turned to me. I would like to share this passage with you. It heals and comforts me.

"You miss those who have departed. Of course you do. They have your love. But love does not die, nor do lovers. Those who have left us are with us still. We are all one. There is one pure energy that unites us all. Feel our union, not our separation. Feel our communion and our grace. Open your heart to the more that awaits.

Those who have gone are with us still. We do not walk alone. Spirits advise us. Spirits comfort us. Spirits partner us on our journeys. To know this fact, we need only open our heart to it. Our loved ones are waiting, ready and eager for our touvh. We open the gate to their presence. We invite their counsel and love. We are the one who have slipped out of touch. They remember us. We are their beloved and they love us still. Talk to them.

Do not be sorrowing and shy. Reach out in faith and allow connection to continue. Life is richer than we dream. Life is eternal. Life does not die. Our beloveds change their form but not their essence. They continue hold us dear and to touch our lives.

All of life is alive to us. There are forces and forms beyond our imaginings that intend us good. Open your heart to higher forces. Allow life to move through you. Reach out to those who have moved on. Offer your love, your faith, your continued friendship. Receive the blessing intended for you from those who have stepped beyond."

This message inspire me, and it proves that "they" are still with us at all time. "They" listen to our prayers, wishes, and desires. All we can do is, speak and ask.

May you find peace from your sorrow.

May you gain strength when you are weak.

May you meet faith when you are confused.

Remember, you are not alone!

The Prayer Power

Few years back, I have an old schoolmate always pray whenever she faces any difficulties. She encouraged me to do this when I find no way to go.

A year ago, a client of mine, Amy was facing the financial problems when she migrates to Australia since August 2009. She used to be an accountant. I remember she was in despair when she just moved there. Because of the rejections of few employers, she almost lost the faith in herself towards her career opportunity.

She wrote me an email and asked for guidance. By doing the email reading, I found her seldom prays. What I mean here, the pray from the spiritual ways. She is the one resist to the smell of inscent. Thus, she thought I was asking her to pray by inscent. I suggested her to used the "Affirmative Prayer" to solve her financial restriction.

I told her, there is always a power that can help you if you believe. Personally, I have found that there is an answer to every problem. And I suggest her to apply the power of prayer. Somewhat surprised, the discouraged Amy said, "Of course, I believe in prayer, but perhaps I do not know how to pray. You speak of it as something practical to suit my situation right now. I never thought prayer can be profoundly affect my life. But I'm willing to try prayer if you will show me how."

" What things soever ye (you) desire, when ye pray, believe that ye receive them, and ye shall have them." Mark xi. 24

So, if you have not experienced this power, perhaps you need to learn new techniques of prayer. It is well to study some of the effective and creative ways of praying. So, I took out a book, "The Game of Life" by Florence Scovel Shinn that my husband bought. I flip to the page of financial security prayer. From that book, it teaches me the new insight about prayer.

It is important to realise that you are dealing with the most tremendous power in the world when you pray. Of course you will not asked to use an old-fashioned kerosene lamp for illumination. Bear in mind, the secret of prayer is to find the process that will most effectively open your mind humbly with the Creator, God. Any method through which you can stimulate the power of God to flow into your mind is legitimate and usable.

After I wrote a series of financial security prayers and send to Amy, and requested her to practise it continuously for 7 days. And I got her good news after 1 year. When I met her last week, she got a job in Victoria City, Melbourne. (That's the place I like too!) She now working in an organic planting firm which educate people about the awareness of environmental protection. She is a trainer and facilitator in the company events. She loves her job. She took many photo and show me during my consultation session. From her eyes, I saw the excitement and passion that I've never seen she had.

This job is what she long desires when she stayed in Malaysia. However, she had been told by her friends to give up on this dream about "Planting the future". She love trees and small plants. And what she is doing now she believes her prayer is answered perfectly.

So, I share the following affirmative prayer were adapted from Ernest Holmes' book "This Thing Called You".

Affirmative Prayer for Freedom from Worry

I refuse to worry about anything. I have complete confidence that the God who is always with me is able and willing to direct everything I do, to control my affairs, to lead me into the pathway of peace and happiness.

I free myself from every sense of condemnation, either against myself or others. I lose every sense of animosity. I now understand that there is a Principle and a Presence in every person gradually drawing them into the kingdom of good. I know that the kingdom of heaven is at hand, and I am resolved to enter into this kingdom, to possess it, and to let it possess me. Worry is a thing of the past, and I am free, peaceful, and at rest. In calm trust, I let it be so. And so it is.

The Success Philosophy

The true inner meaning of success is to be successful at the philosophy of living. A long period of peace, love, and grateful on this plane may be termed success. I have clients asked about "how can we stay in continuous peaceful living since the numerous pressure from financial, work, and social responsibility never stop chasing us. This is what the counsel I always suggested,

"Prayers, affirmative suggestion, and faith practising." How can we do it? Here you go...

The ways to success:

Find out the thing you love to do.

Find out the thing you love to do, then do it. Unless you love your work, you cannot possiblt consider yourself successful at it, even if the worls hails you as a great success. If you love your work, you have a deep desire to carry it out. You wake up in the early morning, follow your passion to work on the things that you love to do. If someone is drawn to become doctor, its is not enough for him to get a diploma and certificate and hang it on the wall. He will want to keep up his knowledge and experience, attend medical convention, continue studying the field and its working. He will work harder to read more medical journals and researches to improve the effectiveness of his patients' condition.

Some of you may wondering what is the thing you love to do. You find yourself thinking, "I can't start the first step since I don't know what it is I want to do. How do I find the thing that I will love?" If this is your current situation, pray for guidance in this prayer:

"I am under direct inspiration. God reveals to me my true place in life."

Repeat this prayer quietly, positively, and lovingly under you feel it sink into your inner being. When you persist with faith and confidence, the answer and inspiration will come to you as a feeling, a hunch, or a tendency in a certain direction. I remember when I pray for the guidance of my real path, I received a strong hunch to urge me reading books, and from reading the books that I am guided to, the answer comes from books gave me the direction to move forward and act on.

Specialize in the work you passionate about.

The second step is essentially to speacialize in the work and strive to excel it. A young client of mine chooses publishing as a his profession, even though he came from minor experience. He concentrate on one of the branches of publishing (Interior Design advertisement) and give all his time and attention to the knowledge of interior design . His esthusiasism will make him want to know all there is available about ID. I told him, if possibly, he should know more than anyone else about ID publishing. This young man become ardently interested in his work and he should be used to serve the world.

He that is greatest among you, let him become your servant.

There is an enormous difference between the attitude of the young man -"passionate mind" and for those who wants only to make living or just "get by". This passionate mind cause him received a reward of young entrepreneur in ID publishing industry. The size of his publishing firm began from 3 working staffs add on to 28 team workers today. People's motives must be greater, nobler, and benevolent. They must serve others, thereby their rewards give upon them in abundance.

Beneficially to humanity.

The third step is the most important one. You must be sure that the things you want to do does not contribute only to your own success. Your desire must not be selfish. It must benefit humanity. There is a law in this Universe. The work you do like forming a circuit. In other words, your idea must go forth with the purpose of blessing or serving the world. It will come back to you magnified and full of blessings.

If you work only for your own benefit, you do not complete this essential circuit. Sooner you will find you appear to be successful, but this short circuit you have formed in your life may lead over time to limitation or sickness.


Thus, the real things of life, such as peace, harmony, intergrity, security, and happiness, are intangible. Helen Keller said, "The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched. They must be felt in heart. Meditating on these qualities build these treasures of heaven in our inner essence. That is the true place where

...moth and rust do not consume, and where thieves do not break through and steal. ~Matt 6.20

*Credit to "The power of your subconscious mind", Dr. Joseph Murphy, 2000 Reward Books.

Being Happy

On a certain occasion, during an elegant welcoming reception for the new Director of Marketing of an important London company, some of the wives of the other directors, who wanted to get acquainted with the new spouse, asked her with some hesitation:

The husband, who at the moment was not at her side, but was sufficiently near to hear the question, paid attention to the conversation, sitting up slightly, feeling secure, even filling his chest lightly in pride, knowing that his spouse would answer affirmatively, since she had always been there for him during their marriage.

Nevertheless, to both his and the others’ surprise, she replied simply “No, no he doesn’t make me happy...”

The room became uncomfortably silent, as if everyone were listening to the spouse’s response. The husband was petrified. He couldn’t believe what his wife was saying, especially at such an important occasion for him.

To the amazement of her husband and of everyone, she simply placed enigmatically on her head an elegant black silk scarf and continued:

“No, he doesn’t make me happy …I AM HAPPY.” The fact that I am happy or not,doesn’t depend on him, but on me.

“I am the only person upon which my happiness depends. I make the choice to be happy in each situation and in each moment of my life. If my happiness were to depend on other people, on other things or circumstances on the face of this earth, I would be in serious trouble!

BEING HAPPY is an attitude about life and each one of us must
decide !BEING HAPPY, depends on you !

“Everything that exists in this life changes continually: humans, wealth, my body, the climate, pleasures, etc. I could enumerate an infinite list…"

“Over my life I have learned a couple of things: I decide to be happy and the rest is a matter of"experiences or circumstances;”

Like helping, and understanding, accepting, listening, consoling; and with my spouse, I have lived and practiced this many times….

Happiness will always be found in forgiveness and in loving yourself and others. It’s not the responsibility of my spouse to make me happy... He also has his “experiences or circumstances.” I love him and he loves me, often inspite of his circumstances and of mine.

“He changes, I change, the environment changes, everything changes; Having forgiveness and true love, and observing these changes, that can be, big or little, but always happen, we must face them with the love that exists in each one of us.

If the two of us love and forgive each other, the changes will only be “experiences or circumstances” that enrich us and give us strength. Otherwise we would only be “living together.”


For some, divorce is the only solution; (…in reality it is the easiest…)

To truly love, is difficult. It is to forgive unconditionally, to live, to take the “experiences or circumstances” as they are. Facing them together and being happy with conviction.

There are those who say:

“I cannot be happy because I am sick, because I have no money, because it’s too cold, because they insulted me, because someone stopped loving me, because someone didn’t appreciate me!” But what you don’t know is that you can be happy even though you are sick, whether it is too hot, whether you have money or not, whether someone has insulted you, or someone didn’t love you, or hasn’t valued you.

BEING HAPPY is an attitude about life and each one of us must decide! BEING HAPPY, depends on you !

Life is About Correcting Mistakes

Jocelyn married William this day. At the end of the wedding party, Jocelyn's mother gave her a newly opened bank saving passbook. With $1000 deposit amount.


Mother: 'Jocelyn, take this passbook. Keep it as a record of your marriage life. When there's something happy and memorable happened in your new life, put some money in. Write down what it's about next to the line. The more memorable the event is, the more money you can put in. I've done the first one for you today. Do the others with William. When you look back after years, you can know how much happiness you've had.'




Jocelyn shared this with William when getting home. They both thought it was a great idea and were anxious to know when the second deposit can be made.
This was what they did after certain time:
- 7 Feb: $100, first birthday celebration for William after marriage
- 1 Mar: $300, salary raise for Jocelyn
- 20 Mar: $200, vacation trip to Bali
- 15 Apr: $2000, Jocelyn got pregnant
- 1 Jun: $1000, William got promoted
.... and so on...

However, after years, they started fighting and arguing for trivial things. They didn't talk much. They regretted that they had married the most nasty people in the world.... no more love...Kind of typical nowadays, huh?

One day Jocelyn talked to her Mother: 'Mom, we can't stand it anymore. We agree to divorce. I can't imagine how I decided to marry this guy!!!'

Mother: 'Sure, girl, that's no big deal. Just do whatever you want if you really can't stand it. But before that, do one thing first. Remember the saving passbook I gave you on your wedding day? Take out all money and spend it first. You shouldn't keep any record of such a poor marriage.'

"When you fall, don't see the place where you fell, instead see the place from where you slipped. Life is about correcting mistakes."

Jocelyn thought it was true. So she went to the bank, waiting at the queue and planning to cancel the account. While she was waiting, she took a look at the passbook record. She looked, and looked, and looked. Then the memory of all the previous joy and happiness just came up her mind. Her eyes were then filled with tears. She left and went home. When she was home, she handed the passbook to William, asked him to spend the money before getting divorce.

The next day, William gave the passbook back to Jocelyn. She found a new deposit of $5000. And a line next to the record: 'This is the day I notice how much I've loved you thru out all these years. How much happiness you've brought me.'

They hugged and cried, putting the passbook back to the safe. Do you know how much money they had saved when they retired? I did not ask. I believe the money did not matter any more after they had gone thru all the good years in their life.



"When you fall, don't see the place where you fell, instead see the place from where you slipped. Life is about correcting mistakes."

Bear in mind, God always love you and your loves one! With
blessings!

Create Your Happiness With Angels

Children are more expert in happiness than adults. The adults who can carry the spirit of a child into middle age and old age in a genius. for he will preserve the truly happy spirit with which God and hold angels endowed the young. The teaching from Jesus Christ is remarkable, for He tells us that the way to live in this world is to have a childlike heart and mind. in other words, never get old or dull in spirit. If you are those like to make things super-sophisticated.

I asked a child before, aged nine, has the answer to happiness. one day I asked her, "Are you happy, my dear?"

"Sure I'm happy," she replied innocently.

"Are you always happy?" I asked.

"Sure," she answered, "I'm always happy".

"What makes you happy?" I asked her.

"Why, I don't know," she said, "I'm just happy."
"There must be something that makes you happy." I urged.

"Well", she said, "I'll tell you what it is. My playmates in my boarding school make me happy. They like to laugh. I like them. I like to go to school. ( I didn't tell her anything, but she never got that from me.) I like my teachers and my Sunday school teacher, and I like go to church with my parents. I like to sing in church, the voices of choirs make me happy! I love my parents and my sister June, they like to bake my favourite cupcake."

To become a happy person have a clean soul, eyes that see romance in the commonplace, a child's heart, and of course, the spiritual simplicity.

This is the formula of a nine years old girl. And children most oof the time show us the angelic character that from God.

A group of boys and girls were asked to list the things that made them happiest. Their answers are rather touching.

Here is the boys' list answer: "A parrot learn to talk like human, looking into deep and clear water, fish swimming, a builder's crane lifting something heavy, look into my dog's eyes.

Here is the girls's list: Sun light reflects from river, rainbow after raining, bird singing, a moon in the cloud, smoke rising from a chimney.

There is something beautiful essence of the Universe that is expressed by kids. To become a happy person have a clean soul, eyes that see romance in the commonplace, a child's heart, and of course, the spiritual simplicity.